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May 11, 2023

S4|EP6: Can You Learn New Relationship Patterns? (with Tim Johnson)

S4|EP6: Can You Learn New Relationship Patterns? (with Tim Johnson)

Tim and Janice talk about how to keep the spark going in our romantic relationships, including what to do when our love languages aren’t aligned, continuing to learn new things about our partners, and doing dates! They also discuss the importance of doing the individual work to bring our best selves into our relationships, navigating anxious and avoidant attachment dynamics, and learning to communicate transparently to deepen intimacy.

Bio: Tim Johnson is the CEO and Cofounder of Couply, the app for Couples. Couply helps 300,000 couples build an incredible relationship that lasts forever, through relationship questions, couples quizzes and custom date ideas and relationship advice all based on your partner’s personality.

This episode covers:

  • How the Couply app helps couples deepen their relationship
  • What to do when your love languages aren’t aligned
  • Love maps: Continuing to learn about our partners over time
  • Date ideas to keep the spark alive
  • The ups and downs of long-term relationships
  • Shifting from being right and winning to being in a partnership
  • Communicating transparently with each other for deeper intimacy
  • Communicating with your partner about your communication styles
  • Shifting from an anxious to secure attachment style
  • Leaving room for messiness in relationships
  • Learning to read the red flags early on

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